The Fight of a Woman - What Every Man (and Woman) Should Know

I talk about the elements a lot -  being the foundational topic of my book, You-niversal Self-care; and the element of Fire often gets a very bad rap.


I believe all women have an inner pilot light. A lingering fire that is different than the innate fire of the masculine energy. Some women burst into a roaring fire at a young age, some hold back a deep inner flame from burning through their whole lives, and others (few, I believe) barely stir.


This is a challenging article for me to write. It's a fiery topic- pun sorta' intended. But, with some recent encouragement from a fellow author, I continue . . .


I seldom struggle to put words together, but with this topic I do because I want the true intention of what I am saying to be very clear. The more I re-read this, the less explaining I think it needs. I'm gonna let'r' rip!


Men, not all fiery women are femi-nazi's and b*****s.

The Fight of a Woman - TarasBook.com

Women, if you feel the fire stirring within you to fight, ask yourself (or ask your fiery girlfriends and do them a favor):

1. Is this your fight?
2. Do the people you're fighting for want your kind of help?
3. What is your objective? (Hint, without this you will likely keep fighting to fight.)

Like I would say to any person with a lot of Fire in them, be wise and channel your Fire; it can cause a lot of destruction, but it can also be the power needed for a lot of great change.

If you grew up in a Fiery environment, be careful in 'fighting a cause' because that's all you know.


The women who have been in the trenches are very clear on the cause. They don't fight to fight- they want to end the fight and continue life as soon as possible. Are you in the original fight or have you been drafted in?


Women, you are very powerful. Some men have been burned out just by being around you.


It's helpful to observe, what lights your fire (a personal cause, a feeling of injustice, etc.); is it kindling, heating the stove, burning a hole through you, or scorching those around you?

 (Learn more about how to balance a Fiery nature and how it can be a good thing in my book, You-niversal Self-care!)

Women, we have so much power coupled with our natural capacities for empathy and love. Let's channel it all as effectively as possible!

How does this relate to self-healing?

Contemplate this:

What goes on in our outer life and how we treat others is a mirror for how we treat ourselves.

Keep your deepest desire and purpose in mind; what is the solution you desire? There is no fight unless your desired result is to fight.  


Let me leave it to Mother Teresa to teach about purpose . . .

“I was once asked why I don't participate in anti-war demonstrations. I said that I will never do that, but as soon as you have a pro-peace rally, I'll be there.”

With much love,

Tara